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With all the texting, online dating and free sexting online in our culture, sometimes it’s hard for a girl to tell if online crushing is real or not. While it’s fun to get a charge out of his text-based flirting, a fake digital boyfriend can turn into a real-life relationship. I mean, it’s just that for some guys to try a keyboard. He may never intend to move beyond a sexting relationship. The following are some questions you need to ask yourself:
Have you started sexting too soon?
Sexting is a great way to maintain a fully intimate, trusting relationship. It’s not the way to the court. Intimate sexual talk, even if it’s through text, is one way to slow down growing emotional intimacy. It’s as if our minds can handle two children of intimacy at once (sexual and emotional), so they’re putting the breaks on one. So, if you have sex with text and emails about intellectual and emotional issues, you might get a hook-up from him, but probably not a boyfriend.
Do his actions speak louder than his writings?
The Trump Promises of Plane Tickets. If he’s a no-show at the beginning, you can count on him to be a no-show later. The beginning of courtship should look like a Prince Charming Academy Award. If it’s anything less than it ‘s going to communicate something powerful to you. He’s not a real friend of mine.
Does he text more than he’s talking about?
Text keeps us in touch, but this is all about it. Frequent, regular text messages relieve our anxiety about attachment. It keeps us in touch with you. But it’s not building a healthy relationship. Well, it feels good. When we receive a text, we get a happy impulse. But this series of dopamine jolts is the thing that tricks our brains into thinking that this is a real relationship.
Is he living in a geographical area?
The rules of geography. No wonder there’s a dating app that helps you find your nearest suitor. Comproximity is more important than compatibility. Really, really. No matter how perfect that man who lives 3000 miles away is for you, a perfectly good enough man on your block is going to get you closer to a healthy relationship and maybe even a family.